Diane Keaton typically mentioned her resolution to by no means marry regardless of courting a few of Hollywood’s most eligible bachelors within the Seventies.
“In the present day I used to be interested by this. I’m 73 and I believe I’m the one one in my era, and possibly earlier than, who has been a single girl all her life,” she instructed Folks in 2019.
The actress — who died at age 79 on October 11 — had a number of excessive profile relationships along with her Hollywood costars early in her profession. Keaton was a muse for actor-director Woody Allen throughout their few years collectively as a pair, along with courting her Godfather and Reds costars Al Pacino and Warren Beatty, respectively.
Keaton turned a mom comparatively late in life when she adopted two kids, daughter Dexter and son Duke, in her 50s however by no means felt the necessity to tie the knot.
Hold scrolling for a glance again at Keaton’s feedback on why she by no means married.
The Proper Factor
Keaton supplied a blunt response in a 1996 ABC Information interview when requested why she “by no means acquired married.”
“I believe I by no means acquired married as a result of I didn’t need to get married,” Keaton replied. “I didn’t select to get married and the those who I used to be with, it was finest that we weren’t married. I did the appropriate factor.”
An Oddball
Chatting with Folks in 2019, Keaton prompt marriage might by no means have labored for her as a result of she thought-about herself to be an outsider.
“I believe that I’m unusual,” she quipped. “I don’t know something, and I haven’t realized. Getting older hasn’t made me wiser.”
Keaton argued that there was “one thing lacking in me” and {that a} husband would want somebody who “nurtured” them, which she was not able to.

Diane Keaton in November 2019. Charley Gallay/Getty Photographs for Netflix
“I’m an odd ball,” she confessed. “I bear in mind sooner or later in highschool, this man got here as much as me and stated, ‘In the future you’re going to make a great spouse.’ And I assumed, ‘I don’t need to be a spouse. No.’”
‘Seduced By Expertise’
The First Wives Membership actress pushed again towards the disparaging idea that she might have been “unhappy” about by no means marrying.
“[I’m not sad] as a result of I believe that I wanted extra of a maternal facet,” she instructed Folks. “I don’t assume it could have been a good suggestion for me to have married, and I’m actually glad I didn’t, and I’m positive they’re completely happy about it, too.”
She added, “After I was younger, I used to be seeking to be beloved by these extraordinary folks. I believe I shouldn’t have been so seduced by expertise. Once you’re each doing the identical job, it’s not so nice. I ought to have discovered only a good human being, form of a household man.”
Conflicted Emotions
Chatting with YouTuber Kjersti Flaa in 2019, Keaton examined whether or not she was “actually being sincere” when she stated she by no means wished to “be somebody’s spouse.”
“I did say that and generally I believe that’s probably not proper,” she admitted. “I believe, in summary, it may need been a very good concept to be married as a result of I believe it actually is a vital, great establishment for folks to get collectively and keep collectively and stay collectively. I don’t assume I had it in me, although.”
Keaton prompt it could have been “taxing” to have “had the position [her] mom had” as a housewife.
“I didn’t need that. I didn’t need to have my mom’s position,” she insisted. “I noticed that she had plenty of ambition that she couldn’t understand due to 4 youngsters and a husband within the ‘50s.”
‘A Completely different Kind of Love’
Keaton harassed in that 2019 interview that, “since marriage by no means actually occurred,” she developed “a unique type of love” for different folks in her life.
“I actually love the household that I’ve … these individuals are actually, actually vital to me and my pals,” she added.
Superb Husband
Whereas Keaton typically gave considerate responses when discussing marriage, she as soon as light-heartedly contemplated whether or not one Hollywood hunk would possibly change her thoughts.
“Who’s gonna [marry me]?” she joked on The Ellen Degeneres Present in 2015, earlier than replying: “Wait, oh. Channing Tatum?”
After host Ellen Degeneres broke the dangerous information that Tatum was married on the time to Jenna Dewan, Keaton had a tongue-in-cheek criticism: “Channing Tatum is definitely married to another person… not me?”