A new cross-country romance is heating up between reality television stars Carl Radke and Venita Aspen. Two months after their initial connection, the pair are confirming that they have continued to spend time together, navigating a budding relationship that spans from the streets of Brooklyn to the coast of Charleston.
Inside Their Growing Connection
Radke, 41, recently shared that the two have been “friendly” and consistent with their efforts to see one another, scheduling monthly dates to bridge the distance between their home bases. The pair spent time together in November and December, and most recently crossed paths in London during an international sporting event. Radke described Aspen as “awesome” and “really sweet,” noting that they have enjoyed exploring New York City together, including visits to his alcohol-free social space, Soft Bar & Café, and local dining spots.
Aspen, 32, has also been vocal about the potential for a serious future. She recently clarified that she is looking for more than a casual “situationship,” expressing a desire to see if the connection can evolve into a committed partnership. She praised Radke for being intentional, kind, and a hard worker, highlighting his professional drive as a particularly attractive quality.
Navigating Long-Distance Challenges
Despite the positive momentum, both stars are approaching the relationship with a level of caution. Radke, who ended a high-profile engagement in late 2023, emphasized that he is taking his time before jumping into a full commitment. He acknowledged the inherent difficulties of a long-distance dynamic, jokingly referencing previous high-profile splits within their social circles as a reason to remain mindful of the logistics.
The couple’s first date set a high bar for their future outings. Meeting in New York, the two reportedly spent over five hours together, eventually staying so late at a Mexican restaurant that staff had to ask them to leave. Aspen noted that she was particularly impressed by Radke’s intentionality during their first meeting, which helped solidify her interest in pursuing something more substantial.
A Fresh Start for Both Stars
This potential pairing comes at a time of transition for both individuals. Aspen confirmed her split from her previous partner, Manny Houston, in early 2025 after he moved to pursue a career on Broadway. Similarly, Radke has been focused on personal growth and his business ventures following his public breakup with a former co-star.
As they continue to take things “one day at a time,” fans are watching closely to see if this cross-show connection can withstand the pressures of reality TV and the miles between New York and South Carolina. For now, the duo seems content getting to know each other away from the cameras, focusing on intentional dates and shared values.

