Golden Bachelor Mel Owens is offering some readability — and closure – to runner-up Cindy Angelcyk Cullers after their stunning break up.
Through the Wednesday, November 12, finale, Cindy, 60, left Mel, 66, throughout her Fantasy Suite date after realizing that Mel was uncertain about getting married to both her or Peg Munson.
“I don’t have to persuade a person to like me,” she instructed host Jesse Palmer throughout After the Closing Rose, noting that she was even keen to maneuver from Texas to California to be with Mel.
Moments later, Cindy got here head to head with Mel.
“Going again to the dock was fascinating to look at. I had replayed in my thoughts 1,000,000 time as a result of I actually thought it was you. I actually thought it was you,” she instructed Mel. “I’m simply dissatisfied that you just obtained that far with out serving to me perceive that you just weren’t prepared for a dedication. Not simply me, however all these girls that you just introduced alongside this journey when do you know that you just weren’t prepared for one thing.”
Mel, in the meantime, asserted that he was “prepared” to make a long-lasting dedication however merely wanted extra time.
“What you needed was a proposal. However there’s one other particular person there. And you’ll’t simply leapfrog over that particular person,” he mentioned, referring to Peg. “It’s important to proceed the journey like I instructed you earlier than it’s going to take time. the saying, first comes love, then comes marriage, then child carriage. That received’t occur however that’s the saying. We talked concerning the leap of religion, I don’t function that approach in my life.”
He then instructed Jesse, “My emotions for [Cindy] had been easy. I favored her or we wouldn’t have been in Antigua collectively.”
Cindy. Disney/John Fleenor
On the finish of the day, Cindy mentioned the pair simply weren’t “aligned” in what they needed.
“I’m a really sensible girl. [I knew I was] not getting married. There was no wedding ceremony on the finish of this week,” she continued. “There was a hope of dedication and to take this fairytale right into a fortunately ever after. That’s what I hoped for. I even instructed you I might be keen to go away my life in Austin, transfer to close you, not with you however close to you, to pursue a life with you.”
By all of it, Cindy hopes that Mel finds The One.
“I would like you to be blissful, I pray for you each day. You’re an important man,” she concluded, additionally revealing whether or not she is able to discover lasting love. “My coronary heart is huge open. I discovered a lot about myself on this journey. I consider [my person] is on the market.”
The episode kicked off after a cliff-hanger between Mel and Cindy, who questioned the place their connection was going when he admitted he had hesitations about leaping into marriage once more — and was undecided between the ultimate two girls.
“I like spending time with you. I like being with you. You’re sharing, caring, sensible, nevertheless it’s a tough scenario. I’m torn between you and Peg,” Mel instructed Cindy, who admitted that she “wrestled with attempting to not shut down” within the setting. “You’re a courageous soul for sticking by it. It’s onerous to discover a accomplice, nevertheless it may occur right here, proper?”
In the end, the pair didn’t spend their fantasy suite evening collectively on the heels of his in a single day date with Peg, which “exceeded” his expectations. Peg, for her half, shared an analogous sentiment.
“I really feel like we perceive one another higher now,” she mentioned in a confessional, after beforehand worrying whether or not Mel was “emotionally out there” for a relationship. “All of my considerations positively obtained answered final evening.”
Earlier than the season got here to a detailed, Mel solely instructed Us Weekly that he made a execs and cons checklist as he tried to slender down the group of ladies and discover The One.
“I normally don’t make these forms of lists. I can do it in my head, however whenever you write stuff down, it’s significant,” Mel mentioned in his Us cowl story. “I needed to put in writing down my first impressions, the products, the bads, the neutrals. It actually didn’t sway me, however I may nonetheless take a look at it.”
“It was powerful,” he continued, “and I’m simply attempting to determine who’s going to be the most effective match for me, who I might get pleasure from. The hometowns are all nice. However there’s that magnetism that pulls you in that course it doesn’t matter what, and it’s a bit of bit extra towards one particular person than the opposite, so I went with my intestine.”
Mel famous that the present “can placed on a manufacturing,” gushing over the picturesque backdrop in Antigua the place he ready to pop the query.
“I’ve by no means been there,” he mentioned of the situation. “I’ve been to islands, however I’ve by no means been there. However whoever scouted it out and set it up and obtained issues ready, simply the little particulars, it’s simply so good.”
In Mel’s perspective, the ending is “actually emotional.”
“And also you’re a bit of nervous, nevertheless it’s so sensible,” he mentioned. “It’s so good, you received’t consider it. … You received’t consider how we get there, not mechanically, however how we get there emotionally. There’s some motion and twists and turns.”


