After a sold-out, five-star run on the 2024 Edinburgh Pageant Fringe, Wyld Lady: The Legend of Shy Woman arrives in London for its extremely anticipated Southwark Playhouse Borough debut (23 October – 15 November 2025). Written and carried out by Isabel Renner and directed by Cameron King, the solo comedy has already been hailed as “a love letter to anybody who has ever believed the horrible lie that they don’t seem to be cool sufficient.”
The present follows Shy Woman, a socially anxious younger girl making ready for her party by rehearsing imaginary conversations—full with index playing cards—in a determined try to keep away from social disaster. Alongside the way in which, she transforms into ten wildly totally different characters, from a six-year-old therapist to the magical Vagina Goddess, revealing the absurd, poignant, and deeply human layers of shyness, longing, and self-acceptance, and audiences have embraced it as each hilariously irreverent and unexpectedly transferring
Forward of Shy Woman’s London debut, we sat down with Isabel Renner to speak about comedy as survival, the evolution of the present, and what it means to lastly carry Shy Woman her dream dwelling.
To kick issues off, might you introduce your self to our readers and provides us a way of what Wyld Lady: The Legend of Shy Woman is all about? What sparked the thought and pulled you towards creating this piece?
Hello! I’m Isabel, and I’m a author and performer from New York Metropolis. Wyld Lady: The Legend of Shy Woman is my solo present that follows the titular Shy Woman’s try to change into cool, fascinating, and skilled. Sadly, her solely good friend—apart from her densely populated imaginary clique—is her therapist, who is definitely only a six-year-old for whom she babysits.
I began writing the present to reckon with feeling just like the shyest lady in your entire world. Apparently, I didn’t converse my total first 12 months of elementary college, and I’ve solely made incremental developments in my social abilities ever since. In all seriousness, although, I’ve all the time felt fairly embarrassed by how intensely I expertise social nervousness. I’ve tried pushing it down and hiding it, and that’s by no means precisely helped. Wyld Lady has been a possibility to really specific it and settle for it—by legend, of all mediums: the theatre.
Shy Woman feels directly deeply private and immediately recognizable. How a lot of her is drawn from your individual experiences, and the way a lot is invention or imagined as an alter-ego?
Shy Woman definitely stemmed from my very own life, however she’s grown right into a sweeter, purer, gentler creature all her personal. I began writing to her from a spot of disgrace, and solely years later have I spotted that I might solely dream to be as optimistic and tender and ‘Wyld’ a girl as she is. She’s mythic in her Brontë-sister-level eager for real love, in addition to in her passionate makes an attempt at music and dance (slight spoiler alert).
Humor can reduce deep like a scalpel and defend like a protect—and it appears to be your most pure language. Why did comedy really feel like the fitting automobile for Shy Woman’s story? Or was it, in some methods, the one voice she might converse in?
GORGEOUS QUESTION! Pardon me whereas I weep. Okay, I’m again! 😀
I really feel like this has been my life’s very riddle. Ever since I used to be little, humor has been a means for me to each reveal and conceal myself. However I believe, for Shy Woman, it’s not how she hides — it’s simply what emerges from her pure and hilarious coronary heart. Humor is finally Shy Woman’s loveliest high quality. She’s so fixated on how shy and loser-ish and unloved she thinks she is that she doesn’t even discover how epically, powerfully humorous she has been all alongside.
All through the efficiency, you slip between varied characters, voices, and views. How did you develop this multi-layered fashion of storytelling, and what does it permit you to seize about Shy Woman’s inside world?
I’m obsessive about doing characters. That’s how I fell in love with appearing within the first place. I don’t assume I’ve ever felt safer than after I’m cloaked within the impenetrable armor of an eccentric character. In the beginning of the pandemic, I began arising with these ridiculous characters and recording movies of myself as them. Then I needed to weave them right into a narrative — and what narrative do I do know higher than a story of socially awkward late-bloomerhood? That means, I might preserve the analysis mild.
The roles these characters play in Shy Woman’s world are impressed by moments from my very own life, profoundly exaggerated for dramatic impact: hiding from my roommate by going to mattress when the solar continues to be out; cowering within the face of my scary boss; chasing gynecologists round city to repair my subject of being bodily unable to lose my virginity to a person I used to be in love with (a.okay.a. didn’t really feel remotely snug with). The personas are all fantastically weird as a result of Shy Woman’s tackle the world is kind of fantastically weird.
You additionally selected to hold it alone onstage. How did you land on the solo format over ensemble, and what helps you maintain the bodily and emotional depth night time after night time?
I used to be too shy to ask anybody else to be in it with me! Simply kidding—type of. I used to be drawn to the shape due to my love of character work. It permits me to play with these chameleonic fast modifications, that are my favourite issues ever. The viewers is nearly solely what helps me maintain the depth of carrying it alone. The viewers is the magic elixir that actually brings the present to life. They’re Shy Woman’s counsel, and their help retains her (and me) going.
You labored carefully with director Cameron King in shaping the piece. What did that collaboration carry out—whether or not in tone, construction, or efficiency—that you simply may not have found by yourself?
Cameron is the opposite magic elixir that has introduced the present to life. She and I met at LaGuardia Excessive Faculty in New York Metropolis, the place we have been, respectively, two very cool and really uncool thirteen-year-olds. She has spent the previous three years growing the present with me, and all of the funniest and most memorable points of the present have come from her. She is hilarious and intuitive, and is aware of tips on how to elevate a seemingly random second into one thing completely iconic. The Blowjob Ballet? All her thought. (If that piques your curiosity, do come and see the present!)
The present has been described as “a love letter to anybody who’s ever believed they’re not cool sufficient.” Has performing it felt cathartic for you? And what’s probably the most memorable response you’ve obtained from somebody who noticed themselves in Shy Woman?
Oh my God, it’s been so cathartic. I’ve carried out it for strangers, household, associates, crushes, enemies, elders, and people to whom I’m an elder. And the viewers is closely concerned within the present. Direct eye contact is sustained (how’s that for shy?). It has been so liberating to look all these individuals within the eye and type of proclaim, “Yeah, that is who I’m,” and be met with a lot encouragement and laughter and acceptance.
I’ve gotten such affirming responses. Somebody in Edinburgh messaged me after a present, telling me all about their experiences feeling shy and alone. They ended the message with, “Thanks for at present. I cried a couple of occasions and felt a fantastic sense of kinship.” That made me cry a couple of occasions and really feel a fantastic sense of kinship. I believe what was so great about Edinburgh was discovering how individuals of all totally different demographics associated to it—how even a 60-year-old man can have an inside Shy Woman.
And now Shy Woman is touring—actually. From barns and taco basements to New York, Edinburgh, and now London, how has the piece developed with every new viewers? And what does this Southwark Playhouse debut symbolize for you?
The earliest iterations of Wyld Lady have been at these very unconventional areas round New York. These set-ups confirmed us how vital it was to immerse the viewers in all the motion (i.e., Shy Woman makes an attempt to lose her virginity on a desk filled with seated patrons). This was the place we honed in on the piece’s juxtaposition—telling a narrative about this intensely timid girl who’s doing all these intensely un-timid issues in actual time.
Edinburgh was this celestial subject of inspiration. It was an opportunity to witness these magnificent, distinctive artists and belong to a group—Shy Woman’s deepest want. However London. Oh, London. Nobody loves the English like Shy Woman. Her most romantic reminiscence is a scene from My Truthful Girl. When she fantasizes about her lackluster American crush, she provides him a British accent. She thinks intercourse should really feel like a lustful look throughout a Downton Abbey dinner desk. It seems like each a miracle and probably the most plain factor on this planet to be taking Shy Woman to her dream dwelling.
Shy Woman longs for the basic badges of “cool”—intercourse, cigarettes, new associates. Have been you satirizing these cultural myths, or reflecting your individual relationship with them? And has your thought of “cool” shifted over time?
I used to be positively extra reflecting by myself difficult relationship with them. I used to be so ashamed of how late-bloomer-y I felt all through highschool and school. I related having intercourse and smoking and ingesting and drugging (that may be a verb, proper?) with capital-C Cool individuals. It was as if these Cool Individuals had obtained some kind of guide with directions on advancing additional and additional up the ladder of adolescent debauchery. And this guide had by some means missed my doorstep — or I had missed the supply whereas inventing comparatively chaste love tales in my head, or visiting the orthodontist, or no matter different less-than-cool pastime I used to be as much as again then.
I suppose I nonetheless have this unconscious need for individuals to assume I’m extra skilled than I’m — though my baby-deer-like disposition most likely precludes anybody from believing that I used to be doing Molly at age twelve or had a triple-digit physique rely by age twenty. However my definition of cool has completely shifted over time. I used to assume being cool meant being well-liked at school and smoking cigarettes out of aesthetic necessity. Now I believe nearly everybody I’ve ever met is fairly cool. I imply, being a human is… like… humiliatingly susceptible. And we’re all getting up and strolling down the road and making an attempt to attach regardless of that. To me, that’s about as cool because it will get.
For many individuals with social nervousness, the thoughts turns into a type of hidden stage—rehearsed conversations, non-public rituals, imagined companions. Has that inside life felt extra like a burden, or a supply of inventive energy for you?
Interior life is my final refuge. As a toddler, I might repeatedly retreat into imaginary worlds; I did so virtually compulsively. However after I look again on it now, I understand I might enterprise inwards at occasions of heightened loneliness. It’s a real love of a coping mechanism. This deep connection to inside life has made creativity not solely my pleasure, however my sustenance — daily-bread-type vitality. (Sorry, that was bizarre.)
For individuals who acknowledge themselves in Shy Woman, what have you ever discovered about turning shyness right into a power? Are there small acts of braveness you’d genuinely suggest?
I critically assume shy individuals are probably the most treasured individuals on this planet. I don’t even have good phrases to articulate it. It’s identical to, “Woah, you might be so treasured, I really like you.” I believe that’s my suggestion. If you happen to think about the shyest a part of your self as a tiny pet or the cutest four-year-old child in your entire world and say, “Woah, you might be so treasured, I really like you” — I really feel like that may assist. Additionally, write a present about being shy for…
And eventually—wanting forward, what sorts of tales or themes are you most wanting to discover subsequent?
I’m being drawn towards some kind of story concerning the seek for unconditional love and the divine, and transcending this mortal kind. And one thing a couple of travelling carnival. Additionally, maybe a villain origin story. Clearly, I’m understanding some bizarre stuff in my unconscious.
Guide your tickets now at Southwark Playhouse earlier than Shy Woman takes her last bow!
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