Tom Parker’s widow, Kelsey Parker, is opening up about experiencing grief as soon as once more after the lack of her child.
Kelsey, 34, introduced in June that her son, Phoenix, was “born sleeping,” referring to experiencing a stillbirth. (Kelsey introduced she was anticipating child No. 3 with boyfriend Will Lindsay in January.)
“I didn’t assume I’d be dwelling a relived expertise, first shedding Tom and now shedding Phoenix,” Kelsey informed the U.Okay.’s Mirror newspaper in an interview revealed on Thursday, August 7. “However I feel with any grief and loss, it’s a must to take every day because it come and work by way of it.”
Kelsey first skilled the lack of her husband Tom, greatest often called one-fifth of boy band The Wished, in March 2022 after he was identified with terminal mind most cancers. He revealed he had an inoperable stage-four glioblastoma in September 2020.
Kelsey mentioned the lack of little Phoenix has been exhausting on her two kids with Tom — Aurelia, 6, and Bodhi, 4 — who’re nonetheless mourning the lack of their father.
“For the youngsters, it simply breaks my coronary heart for them as a result of clearly we needed the comfortable ever after and to have Phoenix, however that didn’t pan out for us,” the podcaster shared. “I spoke about it like I did with Tom, I simply informed them the reality. I feel that’s all you are able to do together with your kids, in something you’re going by way of, be sincere. As a result of I feel folks underestimate their kids and what their kids can address. Youngsters have little ears they usually hearken to a variety of conversations.”
In response to Kelsey, experiencing the losses of their father and little brother has made little Aurelia and Bodhi snug with the topic of dying.
“I feel for them, it truly makes it simpler as a result of they’ve gone by way of loss, they perceive what dying is,” she mentioned. “We’re form of nearly just like the Addams Household as a result of we’ve gone by way of a lot dying and darkness. The youngsters are very conscious.”
She added, “Aurelia likes to inform folks that her dad’s died and her brother’s died. She’s going to overtly say it, nevertheless it’s different folks’s reactions. They’ll’t address how sincere and open we’re.”
Kelsey additionally revealed that Tom’s mother and father, Noreen and Nigel, have rallied round her since she misplaced Phoenix in June.
“I name Noreen on a regular basis, we all the time discuss,” she informed the Mirror. “We spoke to one another day-after-day since shedding Phoenix and he or she was simply as devastated as as each member of the family as a result of she needed that happiness for me and the youngsters.”